Wife Wednesday Episode 11 – Medical Bankruptcy & Cost of Caretaking
What about people like us — people who are medically bankrupt?” One sentence from my wife changed how I understood a term I thought I already knew.
What about people like us — people who are medically bankrupt?” One sentence from my wife changed how I understood a term I thought I already knew.
Getting in the door, staying alive once you’re through it, and the paperwork that follows you home. Three fights in one weekend, and only one of them ends in a letter instead of a discharge form.
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Problems That
Don’t Have to Be.
34,186 people watched a poorly made video filmed at 4am after an exhausting day, month, and two years. This is the full story — written Wednesday, labs today, rest of the week unknown.
“She started asking ‘how many now?’ — during times she was otherwise exhausted, almost lethargic. That number gave her something to hold onto.”
That moment is why I’m writing this. Not to chase views. Because if 24,000 people are paying attention, I owe it to Melody — and to this community — to use that attention for something real.
It’s midnight. I’m rolling an oxygen tank on a dolly, balanced on a wheelchair, down a hospital hallway. Third room since 1:00pm. My wife is in the chair. I haven’t slept in 36 hours. I have deliverables due tomorrow that I will miss — one of them for the third time.